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What Is Small-t Trauma? And Why It Matters More Than You Think

What Is Small-t Trauma? And Why It Matters More Than You Think

by Chichiniova, MA, RCC, CCC Valentina | Apr 15, 2026 | Trauma & Recovery

When most people hear the word “trauma,” they picture catastrophic events — a car accident, an assault, a natural disaster. These are what clinicians call Big-T traumas: single, clearly identifiable events that overwhelm the nervous system and leave...
Emotional Immaturity in Parents – Two Perspectives 

Emotional Immaturity in Parents – Two Perspectives 

by Chichiniova, MA, RCC, CCC Valentina | Mar 22, 2026 | Trauma & Recovery

When Parents Can’t Meet Emotional Needs: Two Perspectives on Emotional Immaturity Most people grow up believing their family life was “normal”, even when something essential was missing. For many adults, that missing piece was emotional connection....
The Freeze Responce-How it Shows Up in Daily Life

The Freeze Responce-How it Shows Up in Daily Life

by Chichiniova, MA, RCC, CCC Valentina | Mar 7, 2026 | Trauma & Recovery

This is Part 2. Read Part 1: The Freeze Response — What It Is and Why It Happens → THE FREEZE RESPONSE IN COMPLEX TRAUMA For individuals who experienced chronic, repeated trauma and neglect, particularly in childhood, the freeze response can become a default reaction...
The Freeze Response 

The Freeze Response 

by Chichiniova, MA, RCC, CCC Valentina | Mar 2, 2026 | Trauma & Recovery

The Freeze Response: What It Is, Why It Happens When people think about how their body responds to danger, fight or flight usually comes to mind. But there is a third response that is far less understood and far more common than most people realise: the freeze...

Healing from Complex Trauma – The First Step: Stabilization and Symptom Management

by Chichiniova, MA, RCC, CCC Valentina | Jan 27, 2026 | Trauma & Recovery

What Is Stabilization in Complex Trauma Therapy? Healing from complex trauma often begins with one essential phase: stabilization and symptom management. Many people seeking therapy for complex trauma or dissociation wonder how long healing will take and whether their...
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