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HOW ATTACHMENT SHOWS UP IN ADULT RELATIONSHIPS

HOW ATTACHMENT SHOWS UP IN ADULT RELATIONSHIPS

by Nicole Lam, MA, RCC | Apr 20, 2026 | Relationships

How Attachment Shows Up in Adult Relationships Hazan and Shaver (1987) were the first to apply Bowlby’s framework systematically to adult romantic relationships. Their research demonstrated that the same patterns observed in infants: secure, anxious, avoidant...

Why Breakups Hurt So Much and Why It’s Not Just About the Relationship 

by Armstrong, MA, RCC, CCC Olivia | Apr 13, 2026 | Relationships

A breakup can feel like one of the most disorienting experiences a person goes through. Not just sad, physically painful. The kind of pain that sits in the chest, disrupts sleep, makes it hard to eat, and leaves a person feeling like they have lost something far...

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