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Emotional Immaturity in Parents – Two Perspectives 

Emotional Immaturity in Parents – Two Perspectives 

by Chichiniova, MA, RCC, CCC Valentina | Mar 22, 2026 | Trauma & Recovery

When Parents Can’t Meet Emotional Needs: Two Perspectives on Emotional Immaturity Most people grow up believing their family life was “normal”, even when something essential was missing. For many adults, that missing piece was emotional connection....
The Freeze Responce-How it Shows Up in Daily Life

The Freeze Responce-How it Shows Up in Daily Life

by Chichiniova, MA, RCC, CCC Valentina | Mar 7, 2026 | Trauma & Recovery

This is Part 2. Read Part 1: The Freeze Response — What It Is and Why It Happens → THE FREEZE RESPONSE IN COMPLEX TRAUMA For individuals who experienced chronic, repeated trauma and neglect, particularly in childhood, the freeze response can become a default reaction...
The Freeze Response 

The Freeze Response 

by Chichiniova, MA, RCC, CCC Valentina | Mar 2, 2026 | Trauma & Recovery

The Freeze Response: What It Is, Why It Happens When people think about how their body responds to danger, fight or flight usually comes to mind. But there is a third response that is far less understood and far more common than most people realise: the freeze...

From Familiar Patterns to Secure Connection: Understanding Attachment and Healing in Relationships

by Nicole Lam, MA, RCC | Feb 15, 2026 | Relationships, Trauma & Recovery

Many people find themselves in a cycle of choosing similar partners, sometimes wondering, How did I end up here again? There can be a quiet frustration in recognizing the pattern: the same emotional distance, the same intensity, the same push and pull, even when you...

Healing from Complex Trauma – The First Step: Stabilization and Symptom Management

by Chichiniova, MA, RCC, CCC Valentina | Jan 27, 2026 | Trauma & Recovery

What Is Stabilization in Complex Trauma Therapy? Healing from complex trauma often begins with one essential phase: stabilization and symptom management. Many people seeking therapy for complex trauma or dissociation wonder how long healing will take and whether their...
Healing from Complex Trauma: What to Expect

Healing from Complex Trauma: What to Expect

by Chichiniova, MA, RCC, CCC Valentina | Jan 20, 2026 | Trauma & Recovery

Healing from Complex Trauma: What to Expect Many people experience the journey of healing from complex trauma as a path filled with both challenges and moments of profound growth. It’s common for trauma survivors to find that their body remembers what their mind...
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